One half of P-Square, Peter Okoye and his beautiful wife, Lola Omotayo, graced one of the 2015 issues Motherhood In-Style Magazine with their cute kids; Cameron (6) and Aliona (2) and shared on being parents, their relationship, speculations making the rounds, and so much more. Read excerpts from the interview:
Major milestones as a couple Lola: As a mother, for me, having our children has been a major. Finding somebody you love and wanting to have children with that person, that was a major for me. I had been in relationships but there was none I really wanted to have kids with or thought about settling down with. When I met him I kind of knew. I saw in him qualities I didn’t see in other men I’d dated, so meeting him and realizing that oh my God this is that person was a major milestone for me. The most amazing was when we decided to tie the knot.
What kind of dad is Peter? Lola:He’s a hands-on dad, especially when we are abroad. He cooks, helps with the children; gives them a bath, changes diaper and goes on school run. He was at Aliona’s delivery. With Cameron, he had a show, so, he couldn’t make it. I wanted him to see the process, so, I think for him, it was a massive reality check. I was happy that he was there; the support was good. Peter:I wasn’t at Cameron’s birth but I saw the video, and wanted to have the experience. At Aliona’s, it was amazing. I cleaned her up. The hospital bed was very large, so, it accommodated all of us. Cameron and I were allowed to stay at the hospital. We spent four days and within that period, my life changed. Whenever I see the two of them now, it feels like a dream. I’ve got so much more respect for women now. I’ve done plenty of campaigns for women, and I tell guys, you don’t know what they go through. You should never lay a hand on your woman. After that day, I had more respect for my wife, she noticed. I think every man should be at their child’s birth. So, what was his reaction when you got pregnant? Lola:He was not ready with Cameron, he was shocked. He was at the peak of his career. You know, he hadn’t hit 30 yet. I mean, he was freaking out and I was like, you know what, you don’t have to be with me, but I’m keeping this child. Not for any reason, but I’m 35, ready to be a mother. I love you, so it’s fantastic for me. I even said to him, if you don’t want anybody to know it’s your child, no problem. Just leave us, we’ll be fine. For like three to five months, it was a major struggle with his family and everybody. I was like, you know what guys, sorry, I’m keeping this baby. But it was a different story when Cameron was born. Aliona’s was planned.
You seem to have a good relationship with your sister-in-law, Anita Lola: Well, we’ve known each other for as long as I’ve known Peter because she has been with Paul for quite long, about the same time or maybe a year longer. We have been through a lot of challenges together with the twins. You know, with their fame comes plenty of stuff, so, we’ve stuck together and worked through things. She’s like my blood. We do everything together, our kids; Aliona and Andre, are in the same class and are best friends, like twins. There were speculations that your mother-in-law didn’t approve of your relationship. Is that true? Lola:Initially, yes. Of course, you have to understand where she was coming from. She is an Igbo woman with famous sons and every mother has expectations. I probably would be like that as well; the age factor, the fact that I am half Yoruba and half something else, there are so many factors. Initially, I thought this was not going to work but Peter stuck by me. She was very cordial but you could tell that she wasn’t too happy about the relationship and I understood where she was coming from. I just hoped that we would have enough time to get to know each other, so she would look beyond those factors. She didn’t live in Lagos and would come only for a few days. But when Cameron came, she became more receptive. We started bonding a bit more, the years rolled by and she realized this woman is still here. We got past that.When she fell ill, I was there with her at the hospital every day and we bonded. Unfortunately, we didn’t have enough time but she was so open with me, and we became close. The day she called me my wife, l couldn’t believe it. I was like OMG, how many years? That was another major high for me, I forgot to tell you earlier. It sealed it. I thought maybe it was me but the sisters heard it as well. Then at my introduction, Peter’s dad mentioned it again and I was happy. You have to give parents the time to get to know you. If my son brings a girl, I would observe first. Any human being would do that, so I never faulted her. I just wanted her to be able to see me for who I am. That time came and she did. There were also rumours that you and your brother-in-law, Jude, aren’t cool. He wasn’t at your wedding… Lola:Jude and I don’t have any issues. Brothers have issues but people just assume that their issues have to do with me. Jude and Paul had issues prior to our wedding, just business decisions that they were trying to make and it just fell around that time and he didn’t show up for whatever reason. They’re brothers. I don’t want to get involved, but still remain cordial and respectful. Does he like me? We’re very cordial with each other, I have no issues with him. He comes to the house, plays with the kids, we’re friendly but brothers would always have their issues. As a wife, I have to step back and not get involved. When Peter didn’t go to his wedding, issues of pay back or no pay back came up. I know that I begged my husband to attend. I’m sure both of them regret their actions. They love each other, you know, blood is thicker than water. Now, all of us are very close. They all have kids now and it’s a different ball game. The wives are friends, we all hang out together. How did you feel being blamed for the P-Square break-up feud? Lola:I think that was one of the lowest moments for me. I was very depressed because the issues they had had to do with management at work, but for some reason, it turns around and it’s about Lola. So, that really broke me to bits because I remember saying to him, ‘Do you know that within a day or two, this is going to be about me?’ He disagreed and before we knew it, the press was talking about it and my name came up. I was like, what did I do? I remember being at one grocery store and a woman came to me and said, ‘You are a witch! You are the one causing all these problems between these brothers.’ The brothers know it has nothing to do with me but people just have this fantasy about Lola wrecking P-square and I don’t know why. Peter and Paul, Anita and I and our kids are together most weekends now, we do stuff together, people don’t see that. Our children are close, why would l want to break that bond? People just create this fantasy in their heads that Lola has come to create problems. Peter:People will talk but they don’t have a choice than to give up; I’ve made it that way. I’m a man, and the fact is that, I’ll be so weak to allow what people say affect me. People look at you and say, ‘Oh, her age, she’s Yoruba, she’s mixed race,’ I don’t care. Even if you’re my blood and you don’t want to understand that I love this person, then it’s your own cup of tea. Today, everybody in my family is cool and it’s so sad the way people put it like she’s trying to separate my family. I met her way before P-square got established, so why would she want to come between us now?
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